EP 161: Molly Fletcher on Choosing Fulfilment Over Achievement

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SUMMARY 

As leaders, we understand that purpose and calling play critical roles in achieving our goals. This week’s guest highlights the potential pitfall of focusing solely on achievement. In this episode, former top sports agent Molly Fletcher shares how long-term joy and happiness come not from achievement but from daily improvement and fulfillment. At the 2024 Global Leadership Summit, she discussed key concepts from her book, Dynamic Drive: The Purpose-Fueled Formula for Sustainable Success, in a live interview with Jason Jaggard. 

 

IN THIS EPISODE 

 0:00 Intro 

 3:30 How did Molly come to be so successful in a typically male-dominated industry?  

 6:55 How can we hold people accountable to being the best versions of themselves?  

 9:50 Molly’s backstory and how did she developed her career.  

 13:25 What are some practical principals of negotiation?  

 20:50 Why is curiosity so important, and what are some of the barriers to being a curious person?  

 25:22 The part of Molly’s book that matters a lot to her but that she may not always get to share from a stage.   

 28:52 The story of what motivates Ernie Johnson Jr. (NBA on TNT), and how that motivation shaped Molly’s contract negotiations for Ernie.  

 32:03 Outro 

 

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STANDOUTS AND TAKEAWAYS 

  • We live in a world that talks about “balance,” but “alignment” is the better target to pursue. 
  • Demand regularly exceeds our capacity, so it’s important to get clear on what matters most to you and to be able to yes or no based on that understanding. It’s also helpful to have people around you that can support you in that clarity. 
  • If we want people on our teams to become the best versions of themselves, consider getting permission to hold them accountable to their own dreams and goals.  
  • Negotiation is essentially a conversation, so relationships are critical.
  • If you want to blow up a deal, send your requests in an email.
  • If you find yourself getting defensive in a negotiation, do your best to shift into a posture of curiosity to find out what matters most to the other party.
  • It is tempting to get obsessed with the outcome that you desire, but when you take a step back and think about what might be motivating your counterpart you can connect more easily and more the conversation forward.
  • Sometimes it is best to have the courage to pause and to listen: to the other person, to the Spirit. Moreover, pausing can send a powerful message about the confidence you have in your position.
  • If you’ve built a strong relational foundation, it allows you to pause when necessary.
  • Curiosity helps you get inside the hearts and heads of the people you lead, which can then help you to lead them more effectively. It tells them, “I am thinking about you.”
  • Curiosity can help you anticipate gaps in the lives of those you serve and lead.
  • When you only focus on achieving a goal, the only thing to do next is to try and achieve more. “Dynamic Drive” is about improving every day, which is a never-ending journey.
  • “Dynamic Drive” keeps purpose and progress at the center and helps keep complacency at bay.  

 

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